The world is filled with all kinds of people. You never know for whom you just might develop attraction in a romantic way. Each and every kind of person has some drawbacks. For instance, girls might find that their guy is not doing enough on his part for taking the relationship to the next level, if he is a shy guy.

Break The Barrier

With most shy guys, girls are required to put in extra effort for breaking the initial barrier towards intimacy. Let him know that you enjoy his company by honestly holding hands, making quick and innocent touches, and so on. Comparing your hand sizes and lacing your fingers is a nice way of breaking the barrier. If the guy is comfortable, a little bit of cuddling and hugging is also done, but don’t go overboard with it.

Talk And Look

Talking out is the best medicine towards all problems. Let the guy know about your expectations. This also includes some naughty tricks like “shushing’ him when he is speaking. Glance at his lips and say that he is just talking too much. This is quite a big indication to the guy that you want something else.

If you don’t want to resort to such a direct method, giving subtle hints through stealing looks is an effective method. Stray your glance towards your guy’s lips for a moment and catch back with his eyes on getting caught. This can be followed by shy smiles and moving closer to the guy. If the guy still has reservations about taking the initiative, you can forget the kissing rules for a while and yourself go ahead with the kiss.

Guys are often worried about offending the girl’s sensibilities. This is even truer for shy guys. They are just not sure whether they have read the signals correctly. Girls are required to be a bit more obvious in these cases.

If you need a kick start, I recommend Kissing 101 by Michelle Penney to shed off shyness and get started to the experience the divine pleasure of kissing. I'm sure you willl love this playful, passionate, and practical guide full of great kissing ideas and stop holding youself back.